JAPANESE people's view of LOVE!!!

 This is about Japnese's view of "LOVE"

HI! I am japanese!

In this article, I will write about Japanese's view of love!!!!!

Have you ever wanted Japanese partner? I think most people want japanese 

boyfriend or girlfriend.

I am 18 years old boy who is not very experienced, but I have played a bit so I can tell you about japanese's view of love.

Contents

1. Introduction
2. Main article
3. Summarize

1.Introduction

Most of girls are interested in love when they are young.

I usually watch romcom Anime and Manga.

In Japan, it is said that it is not good to show romantic feelings socially.

However, it seems that there are more than a few young people who are not interested in 

romance these days

 

Which is more “ideal partner” for japanese

1.     someone you feel comfortable when you are with that person (men:84％ women:90％) > who make your heart flutter when you're with that person

2.     good personality（men:80％ women:81％） >  good looking

3.     someone who has less love experience (men:76%　women:66%）＞  more experience

Surprisingly, both men and women like “ less love experience”, but not “ at all”

 

2.Main article 

According to the survey of 2011, it marked  the highest singleness rate.

For those between the ages of 18 and 34 years old, 61% men and 49% women 

are single.

Also acoording to the survey of JFPA, for those between 16 and 24 years , 45% 

women hate sexual contacts.

In addition to that,  80% of new adults (18-year-old) has ” no LOVER” .

STEREOTYPE

From here, I will talk bit about the stereotype of Japanese's view of love.

As you watch japnese anime and drama, you may think that Japnese people hardly 

show their feeling and japanese boys hardly invite on a date because they are 

afraid of being rejected. That is same to girls. So boys and girls prefer being

 confessed. And they hide dating.

One more stereotype among Japanese is that they choose their lover based 

on divination. Also they choose lover by zoadic sign or blood type.

I think they think of blood type as a part of their first impression.

First Impression

I will talk about what element is most imortant for japanese on ranking.

・Fifth place - Posture

・Forth Place -  Expression

・Third Place － Outfit

・Second place - Face

・First place - Atomoshere

How do you think about this ranking? I'm surprised that fifth place is posture.

I think most of japanese take place on atomoshere. On the other hand, don't take 

place on body. They tend to dislike muscle.

How Japanese see foreigners

Have you ever think how Japanese look foreigners?

Frrom here, I will wirite how JApanese look foreigners.

In conclusion, most of japanese are not interested in foreigners and don't want 

partner outside japan.

No matter what you are from. They require you are Japanese or not.

HOW TO GET JAPANESE PARTNER

More than 80% of japanese don't speak English, speak only Japanese.

obviously, you need to speak japanese first. 

They tend to be little bit shy, so you should not be too friendly. But they are friendly i

if you are trusted.

And never be late for promise, they are very strict about time.

Find common ground first so you can get along!

3.Summarize

How about this article? If you want to date japanese, let's learn japanese culture on our blog!!!

(Credits: Jun/Hiroko)